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《超脱 (Detachment)》
本文涉及剧透。
Henry无疑是一个温柔且清醒的人，所以一直带着淡淡的忧伤。
Meredith和她爸爸的对话让人窒息。就像Henry讲到的，在生育前，应该强制要求人们先完成为人父母的课程教育。
Erica某种程度上算是幸运的。
每个人的生活都充斥着问题需要解决。
“漠视是很简单的事情。在意关心才是需要勇气和品质的。”
“ We all need something to distract us from the complexity and reality. No one wants to think about where that came from. No one wants to think about the struggle that it takes to become somebody to get out of…get out of the..the sea of pain that, we all have to get out of. ”
我们可以找到那个需要的something吗？那个something会是什么？想象力？自我意识？信仰系统？一个人？一个善意的举动？一句” Everything’s gonna be OK”？
P.S. 因为doublethink可能要再看一遍《1984》。
“ So you really don’t care what the kids say to you?”
“ Perhaps I’ve gotten used to it.”
“ I wish I could be that strong.”
“ It doesn’t take strength, Meredith. You gotta understand that unfortunately most people lack self awareness. You should really keep that in mind as you head into the trenches of second period. You’ll meet them again at every age.”
“ Whatever is on my mind, I say there’s a feeling. Im truthful to myself. I am young, and I’m old. I’ve been bought and I’ve been sold, so many times. I am hard face. I am gone. I am just like you.”
“ What are you doing there?”
“ Don’t you knock?”
“ What is all this supposed to be? Your tortured soul? Why don’t you paint something cheerful? Like happy with colors.”
“ What do you want from me dad, besides for me to have been born with a penis.”
“ I don’t work all day to have my night ruined by your teen angst. Mostly your age, might get you a full ride to Stanford, if you were some minority case. I am not going to support you and your little creative habits, okay? I’ve had it with all of all your little art projects that are going nowhere!”
“ You always know what to say, dad.”
“ Now, if you cleared your hair and lost some weight you could attract a nice boys, who knows.”
“ There should be a prerequisite, curriculum for being an parent, before the people attempt. Don’t try this at home.”
(Doublethink)
“ Having two opposing beliefs at once. Believing that both are true.”
“ Excellent. To deliberately believe in lies while knowing they’re false. Examples of this in everyday life: Oh, I, need to be pretty to be happy. I need surgery to be pretty. I need to be thin, famous, fashionable. Our young men, today, are being told that women are whores, bitches, things to be screwed, beaten, ashamed. This is a marketing holocaust. 24 hours a day, for the rest of our lives, the powers that be dumbing us to death. So, to defend ourselves and fight against assimilating this dullness into our thought processes, we must learn to read to stimulate our own imagination, to cultivate our own consciousness, our own belief system. We all need these skills to defend, to preserve, our own minds.”
“ We all have problems. We all have things that we’re dealing with. And we all take them home with us at night. Take them to work with us in the morning. I think that helplessness. that realisation, that foreboding of being a drift in the sea, with no bowie, no safety, when you thought you’d be the one, throwing the bowie.”
“ Every day I come into this office and listen to you kids shit all over yourselves. It’s so easy to be careless. It takes courage and character to take care. Not that you have any of those qualities. Get out! Just get out! Get out!”
“ Where did all the children go? Didn’t they know that the park needed them? A child’s intelligent heart can fathom in the depth of many dark places, but can it fathom the delicate moment of its own detachment?”
“ You always seem so sad. Maybe you have a hard time with things, and you need someone to talk to.”
“ Meredith.”
“ Yes, Sir.”
“ Do you need someone to talk to?”
“ Yeah, will you talk to me? When you talk to me, when you look at me, it’s like you really see me.”
“ I do see you, Meredith. Do you wanna go see Dr. Parker?”
“ Oh come on, don’t pull me off.”
“ I am not, I am not. What can I do?”
“ It’s like you said, we’re… we’re born to this. There is nothing left. Nothing but to realize how fucked up things are. It’s not enough. I won’t last.”
“ Listen to me. Just listen. We’re all the same. We all feel pain. We all have chaos in our lives. Life is very, very confusing, I know. I don’t have the answers, but I know if you write it out, It’ll all be okay.”
“ Mr. Barthes, do you like me?”
“ Yes, of course, I do.”
“ Meredith, you know I’d like to help you”
“ Please don’t, please, please. You said you like me, please, please, no please. Don’t push me away. Please, just hold on to me, and tell me that everything’s gonna be OK. Please…”
“ Everything is…it’s okay.”
“ Please…”
“ We all need something to distract us from the complexity and reality. No one wants to think about where that came from. No one wants to think about the struggle that it takes to become somebody to get out of…get out of the..the sea of pain that, we all have to get out of. ”
“ We have such a responsibility to guide our young so that they don’t end up falling apart. Falling by the way side. Becoming insignificant.”
“ I realized something today. I’m a non-person, Sarah. You shouldn’t be here. I am not here. You may see me, but I’m hollow.”
